How to Travel Without Being That Tourist: A Guide to Respectful Travel Around the World

Travel to Learn, Not to Disrupt

When you travel, you’re stepping into someone else’s world, and with that comes a responsibility to respect and honor it. Most of us set out with good intentions—to learn, to grow, to immerse ourselves in places different from our own. But even the most thoughtful travelers can slip up, unintentionally crossing cultural lines or causing harm. Let’s dig in! Here’s a guide to avoiding common travel missteps that can turn any well-meaning visitor into that tourist—one who leaves behind a trail of frustration for the people of the places you are visiting, not fond memories.

Don’t Be That Tourist

Whether you’re on a solo trip domestically or to far-off lands, here’s a checklist to help you stay respectful, open-minded, and eco-friendly wherever you go.

1. Respect the Land: Don’t Leave Your Mark

_{Leave nothing but footprints, take nothing but memories.}

It’s so tempting to leave a small mark as a “souvenir,” but anything you take from nature could be disrupting the local ecosystem or cultural heritage. Whether it’s lava rocks, beach sand, or even shells, remember that many countries have strict rules against removing natural items. Even more, leaving behind any mark, such as graffiti or initials carved into trees or stone, defaces cultural and natural landmarks that others have come to admire. Read this article on why you should not take sand as a souvenir.

Pro Tip: Always read up on local laws about taking “souvenirs” from nature, and remember: photos make the best mementos!

2. Think Before You Click: Photograph with Permission

_{Ask first, snap second.}

One of the best ways to capture the beauty of a place is through its people. However, snapping photos of locals without permission—especially of children—is intrusive and can be offensive. Take a second to ask (a friendly smile and a gesture toward your camera works wonders). And when it comes to children, it’s best to skip the photo altogether, especially with the exploitation of children and human trafficking, just DON’T.

Pro Tip: Would you be comfortable with a stranger photographing you in your own hometown? Let that guide your travel photography choices!

3. Handle Historical Sites with Care

_{Preserve history with a light touch—admire from a respectful distance.}

Ancient sites withstand weather, time, and countless visitors every day, and they can’t handle much more wear and tear. Whether it’s a monument, mural, or historical wall, these are pieces of history to look at, not to touch. Even well-meaning touches and climbing can cause serious damage. Leave these historical sites for the next generation to enjoy.

Pro Tip: Take plenty of photos instead of physical souvenirs. This way, you’ll remember the experience without impacting the monument.

4. Follow Local Guidelines—They Exist for a Reason

_{Rules protect culture and heritage—let’s follow them.}

Dress codes, quiet zones, or no-photo areas exist to protect the integrity of a place and show respect for its customs. Avoid “bending” these rules, even if it seems like others are ignoring them. In religious sites, wear respectful clothing, and if the area asks for silence or restricts photos, respect that. Following these guidelines shows your hosts that you value their culture. Trust me I understand the desire to bend this one, I’ve been their but just DON’T.

Pro Tip: Research before you go to understand cultural customs and guidelines for sites on your itinerary. Locals appreciate the effort, and it leads to a more rewarding experience.

5. Keep Public Spaces Peaceful: Respect Noise Levels

_{Enjoy the quiet so everyone else can too!}

It’s easy to get excited and chatty, but in close quarters, be mindful of the noise you’re adding. Loud conversations, phone calls, and public music can disrupt others’ experiences. Small spaces like temples, trains, and museums are places to use quiet voices so everyone can enjoy.

Pro Tip: Need music or a phone call? Step outside or lower the volume—your fellow travelers and locals will appreciate it.

6. Respect Nature: Don’t Feed Wildlife

_{Let wild animals stay wild for a healthy ecosystem.}

Seeing a cute squirrel or a majestic deer might tempt you to share a snack, but feeding wildlife harms them and disrupts the natural balance. Animals that rely on humans for food can lose their foraging skills, disrupt ecosystems, and sometimes even become aggressive.

Pro Tip: Stick to observing wildlife from a distance and avoid feeding them—it’s safer for everyone!

7. Conserve Resources: Be Mindful of Local Shortages

_{All joking aside, a little conservation goes a long way!}

In places where water or electricity is limited, every bit you conserve matters. Be mindful of long showers, and avoid wasting resources, especially in arid regions or small communities where water conservation is critical. These small actions show respect for local resources and help maintain them for everyone.

Pro Tip: Get in the habit of quick showers and turning off lights to reduce your footprint wherever you go!

8. Respect the Cleanliness of Spaces: Litter-Free Adventures

_{Leave nature as beautiful as you found it.}

Littering is one of the most disrespectful things a tourist can do. Even if you see litter in a public place, adding to it makes it worse. Make it a habit to take all trash with you until you find a proper place to dispose of it.

Pro Tip: Pack a small bag for waste while you’re exploring. It’s an easy way to keep nature clean!

9. Leave a Positive Impact

As a traveler, the mark you leave behind should be one of kindness, respect, and minimal impact. Your respect can inspire others, creating a wave of positive change among visitors. So the next time you’re packing your bags, remember that being a thoughtful traveler makes a world of difference!

Let’s Dig In, but in a way that respects the places and people we visit. Happy travels!

The World is for Sharing, Not Taking

In every journey, there’s an opportunity to leave the world a little better and a little more appreciated. So, remember these small steps to avoid being that tourist. Pin these tips, share them with fellow travelers, and let’s make every adventure one of respect and appreciation.

Looking for inspiration on where to take your next respectful adventure? Check out my post, Discovering the Hidden Gems of Ashland, Oregon: A Foodie’s Guide to Small-Town Charm for insights on connecting deeply with a destination while supporting the local community.

Stay curious, stay hungry, and keep exploring!

Beth