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What to Do When You Can’t Travel Right Now: 14 Ways to Feed Your Wanderlust

Beth Glosner  | 

Sometimes you just can’t travel. Maybe you’re saving for a future adventure, an unexpected expense came along and your travel fund had to step in, you’re waiting for vacation time, or life is simply keeping you closer to home than you’d like. I’ve been there. But being home doesn’t mean your wanderlust has to hibernate. There are plenty of ways to explore, discover, taste, listen, and dream without packing a suitcase. So grab your favorite beverage, get comfortable. 

Let’s Dig In.

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Travel, at least for me, has never been only about checking another destination off a list. It’s about curiosity. It’s about discovering something new, talking to people, trying unfamiliar food, wandering down a street I’ve never seen before, and wondering what might be around the next corner.

And sometimes, you can find that feeling surprisingly close to home.

Here are 14 ways to feed your wanderlust when you can’t travel right now.

1. Talk to Strangers

No, I’m not suggesting you wander around town randomly approaching people and announcing, “So…where have you traveled lately?”

Although that could make for an interesting afternoon.

Instead, take advantage of the everyday opportunities you already have to meet people. Chat with the person working at your favorite coffee shop. Ask them what their favorite place to eat in the area. Talk to someone at a farmers market. Strike up a conversation with another traveler at a local event.

You never know when a casual conversation will turn into a great travel story or inspire your next destination.

One of my favorite things about travel is hearing people’s stories. Sometimes the best travel recommendations don’t come from a guidebook. They come from someone who says, “You have to go here.”

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2. Walk—A Lot

Put the car keys down and go for a walk.

Not your usual “I need to get some steps in” walk. Actually wander.

Take a different route through your neighborhood. Explore a street you’ve never walked down. Visit a park you’ve driven past a hundred times. Look at the architecture. Notice gardens, murals, old buildings, signs, and little businesses you’ve never bothered to investigate.

Pretend you’re a tourist in your own town.

What would you photograph if you’d never been here before?

You’ll probably discover something you’ve driven past countless times without ever really seeing.

Woman walking through a quaint village street with stone buildings and potted flowers, emphasizing relaxed travel experiences.

Pro Tip: Leave your normal route behind once in a while. A little intentional wandering can turn an ordinary walk into a mini adventure.

3. Visit Museums and Go to Concerts

Museums, galleries, theaters, and concert venues are wonderful places to travel without actually traveling. And the best part? You don’t have to be an expert—or even know exactly what you’re looking for.

Think about what makes you curious. Love old cars? See if there’s an automobile museum nearby. A book lover? Look for an independent bookstore, a rare-book shop, or a local author event. Interested in history? Visit a small historical museum or historic home. Love music? Check out a local concert, jazz night, folk performance, or musician you’ve never heard before.

And don’t overlook the smaller venues. You don’t need a massive concert hall or a world-famous museum to have a memorable experience. A tiny gallery tucked into a downtown storefront, a community theater, or a local performance might introduce you to something completely unexpected.

Philadelphia Museum of Art

 4. Eat Your Way Around the World

If there’s one thing that can transport me somewhere without leaving town, it’s food.

Try that restaurant you’ve been wanting to visit. Order something you’ve never tried. Visit an international grocery store and pick up an ingredient you’ve never cooked with. Or find a restaurant representing a culture you don’t know much about and let the meal be your introduction.

Better yet, cook.

Choose a country you’ve always wanted to visit and make a recipe from that part of the world. While you’re cooking, take a few minutes to learn about the dish, where it came from, why it’s important, and how it’s traditionally prepared. Put on music from that country and turn dinner into a little adventure.

And if you’re a snack person—who isn’t?—try snacks from another country. You could even create your own international food tour, visiting a different restaurant each week or cooking your way through a different country at home.

Your passport may be sitting in a drawer, but your taste buds can still travel.

Close-up of a sushi roll topped with sesame seeds, drizzled with sauce, served on a black plate with a green wasabi side.

5. Read Yourself Somewhere New

Books are perhaps the easiest way to travel without actually going anywhere.

Read a novel set in a destination you’ve dreamed about visiting. Pick up a travel memoir. Explore a book about another country’s history, food, culture, or people. You can learn about a place, experience it through someone else’s eyes, and maybe discover somewhere you’d never thought about visiting.

And don’t forget travel blogs. Reading about a destination from someone who has actually been there can make a place feel much more real than a glossy travel brochure. Personal stories give you the little details—the unexpected restaurant, the charming side street, the local tradition—that can make you want to see a place for yourself.

If you’re looking for a few books to get you started, I’ve put together a list of travel reads that might spark your next adventure:

10 Travel Reads That Will Make You Want to Pack a Bag—or at Least Open a Map

And when you’re ready for more stories, tips, and bite-sized adventures, there’s plenty to explore around the blog.

Fair warning: You may start reading with your feet up and finish by researching flights.

Close-up of reading glasses reflecting an open book, emphasizing travel and adventure reading materials.

6. Watch Your Way Around the World

Sometimes a good movie or television series can make you feel like you’ve traveled somewhere.

Watch a film set in a destination you’ve always dreamed about visiting. For me, that might explain why I’m watching Outlander again.

Scotland has been on my travel wish list for years, and those landscapes certainly aren’t helping me forget about it.

Travel shows can have the same effect. Anthony Bourdain’s travel programs may be several years old now, but his journeys to far-off places in search of unusual food and local stories have always inspired me.

He had a way of showing that food wasn’t simply something to eat. It was a doorway into a culture.

7. Take a Virtual Tour

The internet has made the world considerably smaller.

Google Arts & Culture offers an enormous collection of museums, artwork, landmarks, and virtual experiences from around the world.

You can also explore destinations through 360Cities, which features 360-degree panoramic images and videos from locations around the globe.

And those aren’t your only options.

Try:

  • Google Street View to wander through unfamiliar cities.
  • Virtual museum tours.
  • Online collections from major museums.
  • YouTube walking tours.
  • Virtual national park experiences.
  • Historic house tours.
  • Destination webcams.

It isn’t exactly the same as standing there in person, but it beats staring at the same four walls.

Independence Hall
Independence Hall

8. Listen

Close your eyes and let your ears do the traveling.

Listen to music created by musicians from another country. Explore traditional music from somewhere you’ve always wanted to visit. Find podcasts about travel, food, history, or culture.

Music can instantly change the atmosphere of a room.

And if you’re planning a future road trip, music is practically part of the packing list.

I’ve created The Ultimate Playlist for Road Trips for exactly that reason.

Turn it on, take a drive, and suddenly you’re not just running errands.

You’re on an adventure.

A cup of black coffee on a saucer with white headphones on a wooden table, evoking travel and relaxation.

9. Learn Something New

Use this time at home to learn something that will make your future travels even more interesting.

Learn a few words in another language. Take an online course about a country you’ve been curious about. Study its history, food, art, architecture, or traditions.

You could even learn something completely unrelated to travel.

Take a cooking class. Learn photography. Study maps. Learn about wine. Try a craft from another culture.

And if you’re learning another language, find someone who is learning yours and practice together.

The more you know before you arrive somewhere, the more you may notice when you finally get there.

10. See the World Through Art and Photography

You don’t have to physically visit another country to see it through someone else’s eyes.

Spend an afternoon looking through photography books. Explore online photography collections. Visit a local gallery. Follow photographers who document destinations you’re curious about.

Photography can be especially powerful.

One image can make you stop and think: Where is that? What’s it like there?

And suddenly you’re searching for the location on a map.

That’s wanderlust doing its job.

11. Prepare for When You Can Travel

If you can’t travel right now, prepare for when you can.

Research destinations. Start a travel savings fund. Make a list of places you’d like to visit. Check your passport. Create a packing list. Research accommodations and things to do.

This is also a good time to review your credit cards and loyalty programs.

Are you earning rewards that could help with future travel? Are you taking advantage of benefits you’re already paying for?

You don’t have to book a trip today.

Sometimes simply knowing you’re working toward the next one makes staying home a little easier.

Pro Tip: Keep a running list of destinations, restaurants, attractions, and experiences you want to try. Future-you will appreciate having the research already started.

12. Stay Curious

This may be the simplest and most important one on the list.

Stay curious.

Ask questions. Follow a random thought down an internet rabbit hole. Learn why a building was designed a certain way. Find out where your favorite food originated. Read about a place you’ve never heard of.

Travel encourages us to look at the world differently.

You can practice that same curiosity at home.

You just have to pay attention.

13. Go to a Local Cultural Festival

Check your local calendar for cultural festivals, parades, celebrations, concerts, food festivals, and community events.

If you live near a larger city, you may have plenty of opportunities to experience cultures from around the world.

But don’t overlook smaller communities.

Local cultural events can introduce you to music, food, art, traditions, and stories you might never encounter otherwise.

And there’s an added bonus: you’re experiencing something new while supporting the people bringing that culture to your community.

Pro Tip: Check event dates and ticket requirements before you go. Some popular festivals and performances sell out or require advance registration.

14. Subscribe to a Travel Magazine

There’s something wonderfully old-fashioned about a travel magazine arriving in your mailbox.

Grab a cup of coffee and flip through the pages. Tear out a destination that catches your attention. Circle a restaurant. Dog-ear a hotel.

Before long, you’ve got a list of places you want to visit.

And unlike scrolling through social media, a magazine permits you to slow down.

Which, let’s be honest, may be exactly what we need sometimes.

A Few Travel Magazines to Put on Your Reading List

Not sure where to start? Here are a few travel magazines worth checking out:

  • Travel + Leisure — For a little bit of everything: destinations, hotels, food, travel trends, and trip inspiration.
  • Condé Nast Traveler — For beautiful destinations, culture, food, hotels, and a healthy dose of travel envy.
  • AFAR — For travelers who want to go beyond the usual tourist checklist and experience a destination more meaningfully.
  • National Geographic — For incredible photography, nature, culture, history, and stories that remind you just how big this world really is.
  • Outside — For hiking, outdoor adventures, road trips, and getting outside.
  • American Road — For road-trip lovers who enjoy historic highways, roadside attractions, small towns, and the stories hiding along the way.
  • Yankee — For New England travel, food, history, charming towns, and scenic getaways.

You don’t have to subscribe to all of them. Pick one that matches your travel style, grab a cup of coffee, and start dreaming.

Just don’t blame me when your “I’m not traveling right now” budget suddenly turns into a “maybe I should book a trip” budget.

You Don’t Have to Go Far to Wander

There will always be times when you can’t travel.

Maybe money is tight. Maybe work is busy. Maybe life simply has other plans.

That doesn’t mean you have to stop exploring.

You can walk somewhere new. Read about another country. Try an unfamiliar meal. Listen to music from around the world. Visit a museum. Learn something new. Take a virtual tour. Talk to someone with a different story.

And you can keep dreaming about where you’ll go next.

Because travel isn’t only about the places we visit.

It’s about the curiosity we carry with us.

So if you can’t travel right now, don’t put your wanderlust away in a drawer.

Feed it.

Nurture it.

Let it grow.

And when the time finally comes to pack your bag, you’ll be ready.

Stay curious, stay hungry, and keep exploring!

–Beth
Person standing with a suitcase in an outdoor urban setting, ready for a quick adventure or trip.

How to Turn an Obligatory Trip Into a Bite-Sized Adventure

Beth Glosner  | 

Not every trip begins with an excited countdown and a suitcase packed three weeks in advance. Sometimes, you travel because you have to.

A work conference. A family wedding. A graduation. A reunion. A professional meeting. A milestone celebration.

You may not have chosen the destination, the dates, or even the reason you’re going. You simply found yourself adding a trip to the calendar because, well… obligation.

And let’s be honest: these trips can sometimes feel more like logistics than travel. Get there. Attend the event. See the people you’re supposed to see. Eat whatever is convenient. Get home.

But what if you looked at it differently?

Instead of thinking, I’m stuck going there, try asking, “What little adventure can I find while I’m there?”

You don’t need to turn a three-day conference into a two-week vacation. You don’t need a color-coded itinerary or a list of 37 attractions to conquer.

Sometimes a good meal, a quiet walk, a local market, or a few hours exploring somewhere unfamiliar is enough.

That’s the beauty of a bite-sized adventure.

You take the trip you have to take and find a little piece of it that belongs entirely to you.

Let’s Dig In.

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Start by Claiming Some Time for Yourself

If you’re traveling for an obligation, look at your schedule.

Is there a morning before the event begins? An afternoon afterward? An extra evening? Could you arrive a day early or stay an additional night?

Even a few hours can make a difference.

Let’s say you’re attending a wedding Saturday. Instead of arriving Friday night and leaving Sunday morning, could you stay until Monday?

Or perhaps you’re traveling for a conference that ends Wednesday. Could you stay through Thursday and give yourself one day to explore?

That extra day doesn’t have to be packed with activities.

In fact, I’d recommend the opposite.

Give yourself some unstructured time. Sleep in. Find a café. Wander through a neighborhood. Sit in a park. Browse a bookstore. Take yourself to lunch.

The goal isn’t to see everything. It’s to have some time when nobody else gets to decide what you do.

Traveling Without Burning Yourself Out

If you’re an introvert or simply someone who needs quiet time to recharge, don’t make the mistake of turning your free time into another appointment.

You don’t have to fill every available hour just because you’re in a new place.

Maybe your perfect adventure is a museum followed by coffee. Maybe it’s an hour walking around town and then heading back to your hotel with a book.

Travel should give you something, not leave you completely depleted.

If you need ideas for creating a trip that gives you room to explore and recharge, take a look at my guide to Travel for Introverts: How to See the World Without Burning Out.

Find Somewhere Quiet to Unplug

After spending hours at meetings, networking events, family gatherings, or other obligations, sometimes the last thing you want is another activity.

You want quiet.

Look for somewhere that lets you slow down: a local spa, sauna, hot spring, botanical garden, peaceful café, waterfront, or even a library.

You don’t have to spend a fortune.

A quiet coffee shop and people watching or a good book can provide plenty of decompression.

If you do have the time and budget, a local spa can turn an ordinary work trip into something that feels decidedly more like a vacation. Look for independent spas, bathhouses, hot springs, or wellness centers that offer day passes.

And don’t underestimate the power of simply sitting somewhere beautiful.

Put your phone away for a little while.

Take a breath.

Watch the world go by.

Quiet time isn’t wasted travel time.

Jenkins Arboretum & Garden

Go Find Some Green Space

Whenever I’m somewhere new, one of the first things I want to know is:

Where can I go for a good walk?

It doesn’t have to be a challenging hike. A city park, waterfront path, botanical garden, nature preserve, or easy trail can give you a completely different perspective on a destination.

Search for:

  • City and neighborhood parks
  • State parks
  • National parks and monuments
  • National forests
  • National wildlife refuges
  • Botanical gardens
  • Waterfront trails
  • Rail trails
  • Bike paths
  • Local nature preserves

And don’t automatically choose the most famous place.

Sometimes the little park ten minutes from your hotel is exactly what you need.

If you want a longer outing, look for a nearby trail or scenic drive. If walking isn’t your thing, rent a bike and explore on two wheels.

The important thing is to get outside and experience the destination at a slower pace. Use AllTrails to find what is in the area.

Explore Gently

While you’re enjoying the outdoors, remember that you’re visiting a place that belongs to more than just travelers.

Stay on designated trails. Follow park rules. Don’t disturb wildlife. Pack out what you bring in. Avoid single-use items when practical. And consider supporting locally owned businesses along the way.

Being an eco-conscious traveler doesn’t mean you have to make your trip complicated. Small choices add up.

For more ideas, read 10 Ways to Be an Eco-Conscious Traveler.

See What’s Happening Locally

Here’s one of my favorite ways to make a destination feel less like somewhere you’re temporarily stuck and more like somewhere people actually live:

Find out what’s happening while you’re there.

Check the destination’s tourism website, local event calendars, farmers markets, museums, libraries, community centers, and neighborhood organizations.

You might discover:

  • A farmers market
  • An art walk
  • A food festival
  • A street fair
  • A craft market
  • A local concert
  • An outdoor movie
  • A cultural celebration
  • A gallery opening
  • A seasonal festival

And naturally, if there’s a food festival involved, I’m going to investigate.

Because discovering a town through its food is one of my favorite ways to get to know a place.

If nothing is happening in the town where you’re staying, expand your search to nearby communities.

A small-town festival 30 minutes away could end up being one of the best memories of the trip.

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Give Yourself an Evening Out

Maybe your obligation ends at 4 p.m.

Instead of heading straight back to the hotel, see what’s happening that evening.

Is there a theater performance? A concert? Live music? A comedy show? An independent movie? A local dance performance?

Check the websites of local theaters and performing arts organizations. Search for smaller venues, too. Some of the most memorable evenings happen in places that aren’t on the typical tourist itinerary.

And if you’re traveling alone, there’s a bonus:

You don’t have to negotiate.

You want to see the show?

Go.

You’d rather hear live music?

Perfect.

You changed your mind and want to go back to your hotel?

Also perfect.

Give Yourself Somewhere Nice to Retreat To

If you’re visiting family, you may normally stay at someone’s house.

And sometimes that’s wonderful.

But sometimes having your own room and your own door is worth every penny.

Consider booking a small hotel, inn, bed-and-breakfast, or locally owned property nearby.

You don’t necessarily need luxury. What you’re really buying is space and quiet.

After spending the day surrounded by people, it can be wonderful to return to your room, put on comfortable clothes, order dinner, and spend an hour doing absolutely nothing.

And locally owned accommodations can add another layer to the adventure.

Ask the person at the front desk or the owner:

“If you had one free afternoon here, where would you go that’s off the tourist trail?”

That question may produce a better recommendation than any generic tourist guide.

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Eat Somewhere New

Now for the important part.

What are you going to eat?

Even if you’re visiting a place for an obligation, you still have to eat. So why not make at least one meal part of the adventure?

Research restaurants, cafés, bakeries, food trucks, farmers’ markets, and other local food spots before you arrive.

Look for something you’ve never tried.

A restaurant that’s been around for generations can be just as interesting as the newest trendy spot. And if you’re visiting a place you’ve been to before, search for what’s new.

Restaurants open. Menus change. Neighborhoods evolve.

Your old favorite may still be wonderful—but there could be something new waiting around the corner. (pun intended)

Eating Alone Doesn’t Mean Eating Boring

If you’re traveling alone, don’t let the thought of dining by yourself keep you from trying somewhere interesting.

Start with lunch if dinner feels intimidating. Grab a seat at the counter. Choose a café with outdoor seating. Bring a book. Sit at the bar of a restaurant where appropriate.

Or simply remind yourself that everyone else is far more interested in their own meal than they are in watching you eat yours.

And if you’re still building confidence around dining solo, I’ve got you covered with 3 New Tips for Eating Solo as a Female Traveler.

Because a good meal is still a good meal even when there’s only one chair at the table.

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Take Yourself on a Tour

Who says tours are only for tourists?

You can be visiting a place for the tenth time and still discover something new through a walking tour, food tour, historical tour, architecture tour, museum tour, mural walk, or even one of those wonderfully strange niche tours.

In fact, if you have only a few hours, a tour can be one of the easiest ways to explore.

Someone else handles the logistics.

You simply show up, listen, look around, and enjoy.

For solo travelers, guided experiences can also be a comfortable way to explore somewhere unfamiliar while still having a little structure.

And if you’re nervous about doing things alone, start small.

A museum tour.

A walking tour.

A food tour.

Each little experience builds confidence.

You may discover that doing something alone isn’t nearly as intimidating once you’re actually doing it.

For more ideas on getting comfortable with solo adventures, read Traveling Alone: How to Build Confidence and Enjoy Solo Adventures.

Take a Bite-Sized Day Trip

If your obligation is in a city that you’ve already explored or simply isn’t capturing your imagination, look beyond it.

What’s within an hour or two?

Maybe there’s a historic town nearby.

A scenic highway.

A waterfall.

A winery or farm.

A quirky roadside attraction.

A beautiful lake.

A mountain community.

A coastal village.

A state park.

You don’t need to go far.

The simple act of getting in a car or hopping on a train can change the feeling of the entire trip.

Suddenly, you’re not thinking about the conference anymore.

You’re on a little adventure.

And that’s exactly what we’re after.

A Few Ideas to Get You Thinking

Visiting a major city? Look for smaller towns, neighborhoods, or nature areas just outside the city.

In wine country? Skip the busiest tasting room and seek out a smaller producer.

Near the coast? Find a beach town you’ve never explored.

In the mountains? Take a scenic drive or find a nearby trail.

Visiting somewhere you’ve been before? Choose a nearby place you’ve never had a reason to visit.

The destination doesn’t have to be famous.

It just has to make you curious.

Be a Thoughtful Traveler

There’s one more thing I want to remember when turning an obligation trip into an adventure:

You’re still a guest.

It’s easy to get caught up in what we want to see and do. But the places we’re visiting are home to other people.

Be respectful of neighborhoods. Keep noise down. Follow local rules. Respect cultural customs. Ask before photographing people. Don’t wander into places that aren’t open to the public. Support local businesses when you can.

And when you’re exploring natural spaces, leave them as you found them.

Being curious about a destination and being considerate of the people who live there should go hand in hand.

For more thoughts on traveling with a little extra courtesy, read Be a Thoughtful Traveler: Why Courtesy Matters Wherever You Go.

Because the best traveler isn’t simply the person who sees the most.

It’s the person who notices, learns, and leaves a place with respect.

Exploring Annapolis' Hidden Historical Sites
Exploring Annapolis’ Hidden Historical Sites

You Don’t Have to Vacation Your Way Through an Obligation Trip

Here’s the trap I want you to avoid:

Trying to turn every obligation trip into a full-blown vacation.

You don’t need to squeeze ten attractions into your only free afternoon.

You don’t need to wake up at 5 a.m. for a sunrise hike, attend a conference all day, go to a concert that night, and then wake up early for a food tour.

That’s not a vacation.

That’s another job.

Instead, choose one or two things that are yours.

Maybe it’s breakfast at a new café.

Maybe it’s an hour-long walk.

Maybe it’s a farmers market.

Maybe it’s a museum.

Maybe it’s a concert.

Maybe it’s an afternoon drive to a nearby town.

Or maybe it’s ordering takeout, putting your feet up, and watching the sunset from your hotel window.

That counts, too.

Your Next Obligation Might Hide a Little Adventure

The next time an invitation, conference, family event, or other obligation sends you somewhere, don’t immediately start thinking about how quickly you can get home.

Instead, ask yourself:

What can I discover while I’m here?

You might find a restaurant you never would have tried.

A trail you didn’t know existed.

A tiny museum.

A charming café.

A local festival.

A beautiful neighborhood.

A great bookstore.

Or simply a quiet corner where you can sit for a while and enjoy being somewhere different.

You don’t need a week.

You don’t need a travel companion.

You don’t need a perfect itinerary.

Sometimes all you need is a few free hours, a little curiosity, and permission to make part of the trip your own.

Because even when life sends you somewhere for a reason, you can still find a reason to explore.

That’s a bite-sized adventure.

Stay curious, stay hungry, and keep exploring!

–Beth

A Little Inspiration From My Grandfather

This post is dedicated to my grandfather, who had his own version of an “obligation trip” long before I had a name for it.

My grandparents lived in Florida. I grew up in the house that my grandparents once owned. Every summer, my grandfather would make his obligatory visit north for our annual family reunion. He would stay for two weeks to visit family, escaping the Florida summer heat and visiting places and people he knew in the area.

And if we were lucky, he’d take his grandchildren along for the ride. I was one of those lucky kids.

What I remember most is that his visit wasn’t just about the family reunion. His time with us became an opportunity to get out and explore. We’d visit places he knew, see people he wanted to catch up with, and make little adventures out of the time between family gatherings.

Looking back, I realize he was teaching me something I still believe today: just because you have a reason to be somewhere doesn’t mean that has to be the only reason you go.

His obligatory summer visit gave me the chance to see places I might not have otherwise visited. It turned family obligations into afternoons of exploring, unexpected stops, and memories I still carry with me.

So perhaps that’s where my love of finding the adventure in an obligation began with my grandfather, a summer family reunion, and a little extra time to explore.

The home where my grandfather’s “obligation trips” became some of my earliest adventures.
Close-up of a mature person's hand gripping a car steering wheel during a road trip, with a scenic view outside the window.

Midlife Travel: Why Your 40s and 50s Might Be the Perfect Time for Adventure

Beth Glosner  | 

Have you ever reached a certain age and looked around at your life and thought, “Is this really what I thought I’d be doing by now?” Maybe your career didn’t turn out exactly as planned, your kids are growing up, your priorities have shifted, or you simply woke up one morning and realized you’ve spent years taking care of everyone else. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. And maybe what you’re feeling isn’t a midlife crisis at all. Maybe it’s a little voice reminding you that there is still a whole lot of life left to explore. 

Let’s Dig In.

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The Mysterious Midlife Happiness Dip

There’s an interesting idea in happiness research that has gotten quite a bit of attention: happiness and well-being can follow a broad U-shaped pattern over the course of adulthood. In other words, many people experience a dip somewhere around midlife before things begin to improve again later.

That doesn’t mean everyone wakes up on their 47th birthday wondering where their happiness went. Life, thankfully, isn’t quite that organized.

Researchers have looked at well-being across countries and found patterns suggesting that midlife can be a particularly challenging period. Work responsibilities, family obligations, financial pressures, changing priorities, and the realization that time doesn’t stretch quite as endlessly as it once seemed can all play a role.

Want to dig deeper into the research? Read the NBER research paper, “Unhappiness and Age.”

Note: The research looks at broad patterns in well-being across populations, so it doesn’t mean everyone experiences a happiness low point at exactly the same age.

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Sometimes a change in scenery is exactly what you need to see your life from a different perspective.

When Your Life Doesn’t Look Like the Plan

When we’re younger, it’s easy to imagine that life will unfold in a neat little sequence.

Graduate. Get the career. Buy the house. Build the family. Reach the next rung on the career ladder.

Then somewhere around midlife, you may realize that the plan has changed.

Maybe the career you worked so hard for isn’t as fulfilling as you expected.

Maybe the dream job never happened.

Maybe your children are becoming independent, and the house suddenly feels much quieter. 

Or you had no children.

Maybe you’re caring for aging parents while still trying to keep up with everything else.

Or maybe nothing is particularly wrong. You’re just ready for something different.

That last one is important.

You don’t have to be unhappy with your life to want more from it.

You can appreciate everything you’ve built and still wonder what else is waiting around the corner.

Sometimes having more space in your life gives you room to discover what you actually want.

Remember All Those Things You Said You’d Do Someday?

This is where I think bite-sized adventures really shine.

Maybe you can’t take three weeks off for an international trip. But can you take a Saturday and explore a nearby town? Could you plan a two-night getaway? Could you take yourself to lunch somewhere new and spend the afternoon wandering around?

Absolutely.

And if you’re ready to start planning a bigger road trip, my guide to The Best Road Trip Planner Apps to Map Your Next Adventure can help you turn that “we should really go there someday” idea into an actual route.

Because there is a surprisingly large difference between “I’d love to visit that place” and “I’ve mapped the route and booked the hotel.”

The second one tends to involve considerably more adventures.

A good road trip starts with a destination—and a little curiosity about what you’ll find along the way.

Travel Gives You Permission to Be Curious Again

One of the things I love most about travel is how quickly it can pull you out of autopilot.

At home, we know where we’re going.

We know which grocery store has the best prices..

We know which route takes seven minutes longer but avoids traffic.

We know where the coffee is.

Travel changes all of that.

Suddenly you’re paying attention.

You notice architecture.

You notice how people greet each other.

You wonder what that smell coming from the bakery is.

You see a little shop and want to know what’s inside.

You try something you’ve never eaten before.

You might even get gloriously lost.

Okay, perhaps gloriously depends on whether your phone has a signal.

But that’s part of the fun.

Travel reminds us that we don’t have to know everything. We can simply be curious.

Travel has a funny way of turning ordinary moments into things you’ll remember.

Solo Travel Can Be Especially Liberating

Midlife can also be a wonderful time to explore solo.

For some women, traveling alone sounds intimidating at first. What if something goes wrong? What if I get lonely? What if I look awkward eating dinner by myself?

Here’s the secret: most people are far less interested in you than you think they are.

That solo dinner you’re worried everyone will notice? The couple at the next table is probably busy deciding whether to order dessert.

And the confidence that comes from successfully navigating a new place on your own can spill into other areas of your life.

If you’re considering your first solo adventure, my guide Traveling Alone: How to Build Confidence and Enjoy Solo Adventures is a great place to start.

You don’t have to begin with a weeklong international trip. Start small. Take yourself somewhere familiar but different. Spend a day exploring a nearby town. Then build from there.

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Solo doesn’t have to mean lonely. Sometimes it means you finally get to choose exactly where you’re going

Of Course, Our Bodies Have Opinions Now

Let’s talk about the elephant in the suitcase.

Getting older can be wonderful, but our bodies occasionally like to remind us that we’re not 25 anymore.

Travel can make that particularly obvious.

Long flights.

Jet lag.

Too much walking.

Not enough sleep.

Trying to remember where you put your glasses when they’re sitting on top of your head.

And for many women, perimenopause and menopause can add another layer to the experience.

Sleep can become unpredictable. Temperature suddenly becomes a personal negotiation. Your body may decide that 2:17 a.m. is an excellent time to wake you up for a trip to the bathroom.

Travel may require a little more planning than it once did.

Build in rest.

Drink water.

Wear comfortable shoes.

Don’t schedule every minute.

And permit yourself to slow down.

You don’t win a prize for seeing 14 attractions before lunch, and your body will thank you that you didn’t

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The older I get, the more I appreciate an itinerary that includes time to sit down.

You Don’t Need a Huge Adventure

One of the biggest misconceptions about travel is that it has to be impressive.

It doesn’t.

A great adventure might be a day trip to a town you’ve never visited. It might be trying a new restaurant, visiting a museum, taking a scenic drive, or finding a hiking trail you’ve never explored.

And if spontaneity sounds appealing but you’re not quite ready to completely wing it, I’ve written about How I Plan Spontaneous Trips (Yes, Really).

Because there’s a difference between being spontaneous and being completely unprepared.

I like knowing where I’m sleeping and having a general idea of where I’m going. After that, I leave room for the unexpected.

That’s where some of the best travel memories tend to happen.

The best travel moments aren’t always the ones you planned.

Don’t Let Money Be the Reason You Never Go

Another common midlife travel obstacle is money.

Travel can certainly be expensive, but that doesn’t mean every adventure has to be.

Saving a little at a time, traveling during shoulder seasons, choosing nearby destinations, and planning shorter trips can make a difference.

If travel is something you’ve been putting off because you’re waiting until you have “enough money,” my post Saving for Travel: Tips to Make Your Adventures Happen can help you start turning that dream into a realistic goal.

You don’t have to fund your entire travel bucket list this month.

Start with one adventure.

Then another.

Before you know it, those small trips can add up to a pretty wonderful collection of memories.

Photo caption: A little planning today can turn “someday” into a date on the calendar.

Maybe It’s Not a Midlife Crisis After All

We joke about the midlife crisis.

The sports car.

The dramatic career change.

The sudden desire to take up an activity that requires expensive equipment and questionable amounts of Lycra.

But perhaps there’s another way to look at this stage of life.

Maybe the desire for change isn’t about running away from your life.

Maybe it’s about moving toward the life you actually want.

Toward curiosity.

Toward experiences.

Toward learning.

Toward creativity.

Toward travel.

Toward finally doing some of the things you’ve been putting off.

You don’t have to become a different person.

You may simply need to make more room for the person you’ve always been.

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Maybe you’re not having a midlife crisis. Maybe you’re finally ready for your next adventure.

Your Best Adventures May Still Be Ahead

Getting older doesn’t mean your adventures are behind you.

In many ways, it can mean the opposite.

You know yourself better.

You know what you enjoy.

You know what isn’t worth your time.

You’re hopefully a little less concerned about impressing people and a little more interested in enjoying your life.

That’s a pretty good place to begin.

You don’t have to be wealthy, famous, or extraordinarily successful to have an extraordinary life.

You can explore a new town.

Eat something you’ve never tried.

Strike up a conversation with someone interesting.

Learn something simply because you’re curious.

Take yourself somewhere beautiful.

Laugh until your stomach hurts.

Watch the sunrise.

Get a little lost.

And come home already wondering where you’ll go next.

Maybe the upward side of the happiness curve isn’t about finally having everything figured out.

Maybe it’s about realizing you don’t need to.

There is still so much to see.

So much to taste.

So much to learn.

So many roads to wander.

And so many bite-sized adventures waiting for you.

The best chapter of your story doesn’t have to be the one you’ve already written.

Let’s Dig In!

If you’re somewhere in the middle of life wondering whether you’ve missed your chance to travel, explore, or try something new, let me give you a little reminder:

You haven’t.

You don’t have to wait for retirement.

You don’t have to wait for your children to grow up.

You don’t have to wait for a travel companion.

And you definitely don’t have to wait until everything in your life is perfectly organized—because let’s be honest, when has that ever happened?

Start small.

Take the day trip.

Visit the town.

Try the food.

Book the weekend.

Take yourself somewhere you’ve always wanted to go.

Your adventure doesn’t have to change your entire life.

It just needs to make you feel a little more alive, curious, and connected to the world around you.

Because maybe midlife isn’t the beginning of the end.

Maybe it’s the beginning of finally realizing that your life belongs to you, too.

And that’s a pretty good reason to pack a bag.

Stay curious, stay hungry, and keep exploring!


–Beth