If you’re considering your first solo trip, congratulations! You’re in for an adventure that will be equally thrilling and transformative. But there’s one big question that every new traveler has: How long should my first solo trip be?
The answer isn’t one-size-fits-all, but I’m here to help guide you through making that decision. Solo travel can seem daunting at first (we’ve all been there!). But a trip of the right length will give you time to adapt, explore, and enjoy it.
So, grab your favorite cozy blanket and a cup of coffee. We’re about to dig into everything you need to know to plan the perfect solo adventure. Let’s Dig In.
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How long should my first solo trip be?
Let’s get straight to it: your first independent trip should last about one to two weeks. Why? It lets you adjust, build confidence, and find your travel rhythm.
Here’s the breakdown:
- Week 1: You’ll spend the first few days finding your footing. Independent travel has a learning curve. You must trust your gut, navigate a new place, and deal with first-day jitters. But, by week’s end, you’ll feel more confident. You’ll think on your feet and make the most of your time.
- Week 2: This is where the magic happens. You’ll start to enjoy your trip. You’ll explore its culture, food, and experiences. No need to figure things out. By this point, you’ll feel more like a local than a wide-eyed tourist.
Now, I know what you’re thinking: “Two weeks? That’s a lot of time!” But hear me out. It’s enough time to ease into solo travel without rushing. It also prevents burnout from being on your own for too long. Plus, having a few extra days can come in handy for spontaneous adventures (and we all know those are the best kind!).
But, what if I can’t do two weeks?
No worries! If two weeks feels like too much, consider starting with a 7-day trip. A week is a good time to ease into solo travel. It’s especially true if you’re going somewhere easy to navigate or not far from home. For first-time independent travelers, I’d recommend New York City, Austin, or Portland. If you’re in the U.S., they’re familiar, have much to do, and have reliable transport. If you’re in another country, find a large city nearby or another location in your country. Bonus: You’ll have plenty of time to unwind and explore without feeling overwhelmed.
Just make sure your destination aligns with your comfort level. Some places suit solo travelers better than others. This can affect your comfort on your trip.
How to Maximize a 7-Day Solo Adventure
If you’re going on a one-week trip, here’s how to make the most of it:
- Keep It Simple: Choose one key city or region to explore. You don’t want to spend your whole trip in transit. So, aim for places with enough activities to fill your days. But, not so many that you’ll be running from one thing to the next.
- Plan for Downtime: Solo travel is exhilarating, but it can be exhausting if you’re always on the move. Schedule some time for yourself. It could be a coffee at a local café or relaxing in your hotel or Airbnb.
- Stay Flexible: The best part of independet travel is the freedom to be spontaneous. Don’t feel like you need to plan every minute. Leave room for surprises. You might find a hidden bookstore or a charming local market!
- Connect with other solo female travelers through the FB page Solo Female Travelers (FIRST FB group for women who travel solo!). They can help you with itinerary ideas or share your travel wins and challenges.
Pros and Cons of a Longer Trip (Two Weeks or More)
If you’ve got the time and flexibility, a two-week trip might be exactly what you need. Here’s what to expect from a longer solo journey:
Pros:
- Deeper immersion: You can deeply embrace the destination’s culture, cuisine, and vibe.
- Less stress: More time means less pressure to cram everything into a few days. You can go at your own pace.
- Personal growth: The more time you spend alone, the more you’ll get comfortable with being self-reliant. That skill will stick with you long after your trip.
Cons:
- Homesickness: After a few days, some solo travelers miss familiar faces and routines. Schedule regular calls or video chats with friends and family to stay connected. This will help combat it.
- Stressful: You are the sole person making the directions without someone to fall back on. Traveling to a new country with a language barrier, new food, and people can be daunting and stressful. A good cry is bound to happen. This is completely normal and healthy.
- Lonely: Don’t get me wrong I love solo travel but it can be lonely at times. The desire to share an experience with someone. During our travels connect with others and share your travel stories.
- Budget: Longer trips can result in significant expenses. Plan your budget carefully. Account for accommodation, food, and activities.
5 Tips for Making the Most of Your First Solo Trip
- Start Small: For your first independent adventure, pick a destination that feels manageable. A town or city where people speak your native language and have good public transportation.
- Choose Safe Accommodations: Look for accommodations with great reviews. Hostels, B&Bs, or small boutique hotels offer opportunities to meet other travelers. All the while still giving you personal space.
- Learn Basic Phrases: If you’re going to a non-English-speaking country, learn some key phrases in the local language. They can help. (Plus, it’s fun to surprise locals with your efforts!)
- Trust Your Gut: If something feels off, trust your instincts. Whether it’s a sketchy situation or simply a tour you’re not vibing with, it’s okay to walk away. Your safety is always first.
- Document Your Journey: Keep a journal, take photos, or start a travel blog. Not only will this help you reflect on your trip, but it also gives you something to look back on with pride.
Taking a solo coffee break and soaking in the vibes!
How to Know You’re Ready for a Solo Trip
Still wondering if you’re truly ready for your first solo trip? Here are a few signs that you’re up for the challenge:
- You’re comfortable doing things alone, like eating out or going to a movie.
- You’ve planned a trip before, even if it was with others.
- You’re ready to step out of your comfort zone and embrace the unknown.
If these sound like you, then get ready to book that flight!
How Long Should Your First Solo Trip Be?
Ultimately, the length of your trip depends on your comfort, destination, and personal preferences. For most people, 1-2 weeks is the sweet spot for a first independent adventure. It gives you time to adjust, explore, and return home feeling empowered by your experience.
Ready to take the plunge? Start planning your self-guided adventure today. Whether it’s a quick getaway or a longer journey, embrace every moment! And don’t forget to check out my guide to the 7 best travel apps for independent female travelers to help make your trip even smoother.
Stay curious, stay hungry, and keep exploring!
-Beth